Minor Issues: Caning was a punishment of last resort when my toddler son misbehaved

Caning should be the last resort, reserved for serious breaches. PHOTO ILLUSTRATION: ST FILE
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SINGAPORE – As a three-year-old, my son was a strong-willed toddler terror. He was a hitter, runner and screamer. And he excelled in comprehending parental instructions – and then doing exactly the opposite.

My wife and I love him to bits, but it was dazzlingly clear we could not love without meting out discipline.

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